6.23.2004
The art of seduction!!
This is an article I found that really impressed me.... Men, just think about, a lil' bit!
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How does a guy get a woman to 'shower' him with attention to the point of obsession? By baiting a woman along with the psychological element of seduction known as DETACHMENT. Why does it work? Because it's the last thing that she expects...
HERE'S HOW DETACHMENT WORKS:
Once you've made a good impression on a woman -- for example you've said 'hi' to her, she's said 'hi' back, and you've had a chance to flirt and establish a slight level of attraction over a brief period of time (hours, days) -- you can increase the heat by suddenly backing off. As explained in our book in more detail, your goal is to leave her 'wanting more'.
Women do this all the time to men. This is almost a tradition, and so it can really infect a woman with attraction when a guy does it. Because it's the last thing that she expects.
FACT: With beautiful women, men are generally the aggressors. Beautiful women grow up in a world where they are pursued hungrily by men.
FACT: Most often beautiful women desire a man that they themselves pursue.
CONCLUSION: Do not persue or 'chase' after beautiful women. You want women to chase you. And you do this by combining flirtatious behavior with 'detachment'.
USING THIS SEDUCTION STRATEGY IN REAL LIFE...
To 'detach' from a woman, you first need to ignite a spark of attraction with flirtatious behavior ... Smiles, seductive language, exciting movements (* read the complete guide to flirting and seductive language in Dating Insider's The 'Science' of Picking Up Women).
After you've set the stage with flirtatious behavior, it's time to 'detach' and back off... Suddenly, the woman is left wondering why you backed off. She is left thinking about you.
Your goal is to leave her to think about you for a few days... the next time you see her, once again be warm and flirtatious.
Then start the cycle of detachment all over again.
ASK YOURSELF: Do you want this woman to become 'obsessed' with you? You have set the stage for serious 'obsession', and as you are about to find out with this woman, sex with an obsessed woman is one of the seven wonders of the world.
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